I once dropped $91,000 on Google ads and SEO consultants. Zero results. Nothing but an empty bank account and a bruised ego. You’d think after two successful exits—RemoteTeam getting acquired by Gusto, MovieLaLa by Gfycat—and angel investing in over 200 startups like Anthropic, OpenAI, Scale AI, and Hugging Face, I’d have marketing figured out. Nope. That failure was a hard slap in the face.
But here’s the kicker: that disastrous chapter led me to a counterintuitive strategy that sparked 12x growth in just 9 months for one of my startups. It wasn’t about keywords or backlinks. It was about something much simpler—and much harder to copy.
If you’re serious about startup growth, stop chasing vanity metrics. Forget SEO as you know it. I’m going to share the full story, the technical details behind the strategy, and exactly how you can replicate it.
Why SEO is Dead (For Startups Like Yours)
Let’s get this out of the way: SEO isn’t completely dead. It still works for big brands with massive content teams pumping out optimized pages every day. But for startups with limited resources, SEO is a slow, expensive, and often fruitless race.
Here’s the brutal truth:
- Google’s algorithm changes every week, and the tactics that worked yesterday get penalized tomorrow.
- SEO is a long-term play. If you need growth now, you’re wasting precious runway.
- Most SEO traffic is low intent—people browsing, not buying or signing up.
- SEO is highly competitive. You’re fighting giants with endless content budgets.
- You don’t control the channel. One algorithm update, and your traffic tanks.
I learned this the hard way during my first startup MovieLaLa. We poured thousands into SEO and content marketing. The traffic came, but signups didn’t. It was vanity metrics—a dopamine hit for the ego, nothing more.
After that, with RemoteTeam, I vowed to never put all my eggs in the SEO basket again. Instead, I focused on building product-led growth and viral loops. That’s what actually moved the needle.
The $91,000 Mistake That Led to 12x Growth
This was with a more recent startup. We were desperate for traction and followed the usual playbook: PPC campaigns, SEO agencies, content farms—you name it. Nine months in, we had spent $91,000 on ads and consultants. Our monthly active users barely budged.
Here’s what changed everything:
I stopped trying to buy users. Instead, I built the product so it pulls users in.
What does that mean?
- I focused on product-led growth: making the product so good and so sticky, users become your best marketers.
- I engineered viral loops: users invited other users because the product’s value was tied to network effects.
- I tracked the right metrics: not pageviews or impressions but activation rates, referral rates, and retention.
The result? In 9 months, we grew monthly active users by 12x, and the cost per acquisition dropped below $5.
Here’s how I did it.
Step 1: Kill Vanity Metrics, Start Tracking What Matters
The first step is brutal honesty. What metrics are you chasing? Pageviews? Bounce rate? SEO rankings?
Throw them out.
What actually drives growth?
- Activation: Are users getting value quickly after signup? If not, your product needs work.
- Retention: Do users come back day 7, day 30? If not, growth is a leaky bucket.
- Referral Rate: Are users inviting others? This is free, scalable growth.
- Revenue: If you’re selling, are users paying and sticking?
At RemoteTeam, I obsessively tracked activation. When users got their first remote worker onboarded within 24 hours, retention exploded. At MovieLaLa, referral rates were low until we added a social sharing feature that rewarded users for inviting friends.
Actionable advice:
- Set up event tracking using tools like Mixpanel or Amplitude.
- Define your activation event—what key action signals the user “got it.”
- Measure retention cohorts weekly.
- Implement a referral tracking system early.
Step 2: Build Product Features That Drive Viral Loops
Forget SEO keywords. Think about how your product itself can pull new users via existing users.
Viral loops happen when:
- Using the product creates value only when others join (network effect).
- Users are incentivized to invite others.
- Invitations are easy to send and accept.
At RemoteTeam, the entire product was designed around collaboration. Every new hire added value to the team, encouraging managers to invite more. For MovieLaLa, social sharing was baked into the core experience—users loved showing off their movie picks to friends.
Here’s the technical breakdown to build your own viral loops:
- Identify the core “invite event”: What action naturally leads a user to invite someone else? It could be adding a teammate, sharing a document, or collaborating on a task.
- Make invites frictionless: Integrate with email, Slack, WhatsApp, SMS—whatever your users use.
- Reward the inviter and invitee: This can be explicit (discounts, credits) or implicit (better product experience).
- Track the viral coefficient: Number of invites per user × conversion rate of invites. Aim for >1 to grow exponentially.
Actionable advice:
- Map your user journey. Where can you embed invite prompts naturally?
- Build invitation APIs early. Don’t rely on manual share buttons.
- Experiment with incentives but focus on product value first.
- Monitor your viral coefficient weekly.
Step 3: Focus on Product-Led Growth, Not Paid Acquisition
Paid ads can work, but only if your product delivers value fast and users want to share it. Otherwise, you’re just throwing money into a black hole.
Product-led growth means:
- The product is the primary driver of acquisition, retention, and expansion.
- Users can experience core value without talking to sales.
- The onboarding process is smooth and intuitive.
At RemoteTeam, we eliminated sales calls for early users. Instead, the onboarding flow guided managers to post jobs, review candidates, and hire—all within one platform. This reduced friction and sped up activation.
Actionable advice:
- Build self-service onboarding flows.
- Use in-app messaging and tooltips to guide users.
- Collect feedback inside the product and iterate fast.
- Make upgrading or buying easier within the app.
Step 4: Use Data to Iterate Relentlessly
Growth is a process, not a one-time hack. I’ve seen founders obsess over SEO rankings while ignoring user feedback and data. That’s backwards.
Here’s what I did to get 12x growth:
- Set up dashboards with real-time user behavior.
- Ran A/B tests on onboarding flows and viral invite prompts.
- Cut features that didn’t improve activation.
- Invested in the features that boosted referral rates.
For example, when our viral invites weren’t converting, I tested different messaging and timing. Sending invites after users completed an important task tripled the conversion rate.
Actionable advice:
- Use tools like Google Analytics, Mixpanel, or Amplitude to track user behavior.
- Test one change at a time.
- Measure impact on activation, referral, and retention.
- Be ready to kill features that don’t work.
Step 5: Build a Community Around Your Product
This isn’t a gimmick. When users feel part of a community, they stay longer and invite others.
At MovieLaLa, our early adopters loved chatting about movies and recommending picks to friends. We nurtured that by creating forums, Slack groups, and weekly newsletters. This created organic buzz that SEO could never buy.
At RemoteTeam, we built a community of remote managers who shared tips and best practices. This strengthened retention and referrals.
Actionable advice:
- Create spaces for users to connect (Slack, Discord, forums).
- Facilitate user-generated content and discussions.
- Host webinars or live Q&A sessions.
- Highlight success stories to inspire others.
What About SEO? When Does It Make Sense?
I’m not saying ditch SEO entirely. For example, if you’re building a content-based business or a marketplace with lots of informational queries, SEO can still be a traffic source.
But for early-stage startups focused on fast growth and limited budget, SEO is a distraction.
Use SEO as a secondary channel once your product-market fit is solid and you have reliable growth from product-led and viral strategies.
Final Thoughts: Stop Chasing Illusions, Build Growth Into Your Product
I wrote Becoming Top 1% because I wanted to share exactly how to build success systematically. Growth isn’t magic. It’s not about hacks or shortcuts.
It’s about obsessing over the user experience, cutting wasted spend, and engineering your product to pull users in.
If you want 12x growth, don’t throw more money at SEO or ads. Stop chasing vanity metrics.
Focus on:
- Activation
- Retention
- Referral
Build viral loops into your product.
Measure everything.
Iterate relentlessly.
If you do that, growth won’t be some distant dream. It becomes inevitable.
If you found this useful, reach out on Twitter or LinkedIn. I’m always happy to talk shop, share what I learned investing in Anthropic, OpenAI, Scale AI, Hugging Face, and beyond, or just swap war stories from the trenches.
Growth is hard. But it’s not impossible. You just have to build it right.
Frequently Asked Questions
What experience informs this perspective?
This perspective comes from over a decade of building companies in Silicon Valley, two successful exits (RemoteTeam to Gusto, MovieLaLa to Gfycat), and investing in 200+ startups including Anthropic, OpenAI, and Scale AI. I write about what I've lived.
What's the most common pushback you get on this?
People often push back by citing exceptions or edge cases. And they're usually right that exceptions exist. But building a strategy around exceptions rather than patterns is a losing game for most founders.
Do all experts agree with this view?
No, and that's fine. The best ideas in business are often contrarian. I share my perspective based on my experience and data, but I encourage you to seek out opposing viewpoints and form your own conclusions.